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My fellow men ask me about " understanding women " and "how to meet women " and equivalent things all the time .

Still honestly the best answer for all of these sort of questions is "experience."

But of course the next question is how do you get experience if you don't know how to attract women?

You do it by meeting women and approaching women any way you can in large droves. It is called serial dating. And when I composed my first book "How I Got 700 Dates In One Year" it caused a little controversy.

I guess I should elucidate. I am not a cheater and don't believe in cheating. That is not what serial dating is about. Serial dating is about the times you are NOT in a relationship. It is about what you do in between relationships. It is about sensibly selecting a partner.

Now I would be the first one to agree with the fact that a person who "multiple"¯ or "serial"¯ dates with no intention of ever doing anything else would have at least some major "relating"¯ issues.

However, serial and multiple dating is not only not necessarily a bad thing, if done with a purpose to learn about the opposite sex, it is a good thing. By heavy and consistent interaction with the opposite sex we can learn about both the opposite sex and about ourselves.

What do you think most parents told their teenage sons and daughters?

"Don't get too serious with one person. You need to meet and date different people.

It may seem childish, but this teenage advice is what most adults who are looking for a mate need to remember.

First of all, most adults never followed their parent's advice and dated lots of people. Most people seem to have a pattern of connecting with the first acceptable¯ person who shows them some real interest.

But bear in mind, there is a big difference between "acceptable¯" and "ideal"¯ and also sad to say most people normally continue this pattern of connecting with the first "acceptable"¯ person who comes along well into maturity.

We call this "settling".

We call this "compromising".

We call this all sorts of names years later when we realize we aren't happy.

Most of us didn't realize when we were teenagers that there are all sorts of people in the world - different personalities, different likes and dislikes. We didn't realize that if we met enough people we actually could meet someone who was precisely right for us.

Most of us didn't even examine our own personality and what what would be a good match for us. We founded our ideas of what a good match was off of television and movies and magazines. You see most of us just lacked experience with the opposite sex.

The cure is simple. When you date and meet lots of people, sooner or later, you figure it out for yourself. It's a natural process. You get comfortable with people, you realize that everyone is different, and that different types of people like different types of people. Eventually you figure out what kind of person you are and what kind of people you get along with best.

And believe it or not, that is all us "dating gurus" have ever successfully done to meet women and attract women . We have just gone out and got a lot of experience.

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